Monday, July 8, 2013

Eat it, Don't Leave it

         I eat a lot and have a lot to eat, but it has not always been that way. My experience with doing with and without came while I was in the Marine Corps.
            My first meal in boot camp was breakfast and memorable for many reasons. One was a sign hanging behind the chow line that read, "Take all you want, eat all you take." I soon found out that they were serious about that.
            At that breakfast, I was so scared with Drill Instructors yelling, the noise, no sleep, sloppy clothes, my baldhead, that I kept my eyes straight ahead as instructed, and put my tray out whenever I wanted something. For some inexplicable reason, I thought you had to take everything. I ended up with a queasy stomach, and a tray heaped with food. As I approached the table, I saw that my fellow recruits, thinking more clearly than me, had a cracker, or a piece of toast, or nothing, but none had the arm straining weight of the food I carried.  
            When I sat, I saw our Drill Instructor glaring at me. I put the slogan I had seen together with that look and my tray that should have had a forklift under it instead of my quivering arms, and I knew I was in for a life altering experience.
            I watched in terror as the huge man stormed over to me. I was able to jump to the position of attention as he put his face an inch from mine and screamed the profanities of a demon. I was able to decipher that he ordered me to eat every bite of food on my plates, notice the plural. Further, I had three minutes to do it, and if I were unable to hold it down, I would have the opportunity to eat it again. I believed him. I looked at my tray and the horror of my error came crashing home. I thought to myself, "I am going to die in the Marine Corps, not in combat, but from breakfast."
            I sat to my task with both hands scooping food into my mouth. I chewed very little of it, and was getting through it pretty well until I saw the bowl of oatmeal. I have never liked oatmeal. The thought makes me sick, and there sat a bowl of the stuff, steaming, as if to mock me. I broke into a sweat that soaked my shirt.
            There was only one way I was going to be able to put that stuff on top of everything else and not see it again. I scooped the whole glob out of the bowl with my right hand. My gag reflex was working overtime as I brought the mess to my mouth. Before I got it there, a recruit sitting down the table from me, hurled his miniscule breakfast and everything he had eaten in the past month. Mine was on the way up to join his, but I believed the Drill Instructor's stated consequence. I crammed all the oatmeal into my mouth at once and swallowed to hold the coming eruption down. I closed my eyes and tears joined the sweat coursing down my face, but I did it. I got it all down, and held it. I won. I had survived breakfast.
            The next event with food was the opposite. In Vietnam, due to some real life and death circumstances, my unit was without food and water for three days and four nights, and under extreme physical duress. I dreamed of that boot camp breakfast and longed for the morsel of oatmeal that had slid down my face, onto my tray, that I hid by sliding a plate over it. These two experiences have combined to give me a near neurotic intolerance for wasting food.
            The real magnitude of my neurosis surfaced when I was a Scout Master. I had never been a waster, and it irked me when people would throw away untouched food in lunch lines, but with boys burning food just because they could, I became a Food Cop. Whatever you cooked, or took off the community plate, you ate. It became a hard and fast rule for my family, the scout troop, and me.
            Enter plastic storage containers. They are where food goes to die. This has become a point of contention between the Admiral and I. Being an Admiral, she thinks that every meal must feed a ships' company. Consequently, we have leftovers, and I don't mean a serving or two, I mean pans of stuff. After the meal, this food becomes an unrecognizable mass as it is squeezed into plastic containers and placed in the refrigerator.
            Someone will go there to investigate the leftovers, take out one of twenty plastic containers, open it, and not be able to discern what it is. They will sniff it in a vain attempt to identify the contents, and not being sure, or worse, knowing what the mass is, will return it to the fridge shelf where it will be shuttled into the dark recesses and left to become an unrecognizable mass with fur.
            When the refrigerator is cleaned, these tubs are emptied in a process that the Admiral euphemistically refers to as recycling. Knowing what you know about my aversion to waste, you can see how this process is ripe for conflict.
            We are working through it, cooking smaller portions, emphasizing the take-all-you-want-eat-all-you-take standard. It seems to be working. Either that or the Admiral is cleaning the fridge under the cover of darkness. The problem has a simple solution; eat it, don't leave it.

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